marriage…what do u think?
Long time no see…
didn’t catch that writing mood yet, hard to find masterpiece inspiration.huheuhue….
well..well…got an interesting thought about this word :
marriage
what do u think? what do u think about marriage?seriously i want to know your opinion.
is it just a word in a dictionary for you? or is it the word of your dreamland or even nightmare?
I started this blog after watching celebrity A and M on the infotainment news. How the husband handle a marriage like disney magic kingdom (well of course he’s the king), and nobody’s right except him. The wife, well…after she’s trapped in a tower of terror for years, she found her magic wound and…voila…the stardusts shimmering all over her now, then she began to think…"what am I doing in this not so dreamland (anymore) kingdom?,maybe i should build my own now.."
Maybe they forgot that the kingdom used to be "their" dreamland…or maybe after some years of marriage and living in it love is just not enough, or maybe you just begin to forget how to love.
Marriage,again…what do you think?
Do u feel 100percent happy about your marriage? Or u never even think about that, your days just passed by and by and by.
Ok, for me…just like anybody will say…marriage is part of your "ibadah", your way to heaven. (amien).
But that will be just an ordinary answer, isn’t it? Marriage for me is a long long road you have to travel, but too bad…you dropped the map somewhere between the mosque(or church or home where u took the vow) and the road in front of your house. Oh my Lord, that soon? yes, that soon you lost the map, but you know you have to survive, and you both are..of course still smiling, cause you ve got truckload full of loves.blink..blink…blink…!Well, the the next day you woke up, go to the bathroom and found your tooth paste squeezed in the wrong way…argh…u want to scream out loud,but.."hm…i have to accept my love one the way he/she is"…
See, u lost the map but u can still take the right turn? love does give u direction.
For that and zillion things….that u thought u can’t forgive and forget…..
But will your love account run out of love?and the love credit card machine will appears..DECLINED…DECLINED….!That time you will probably felt soooooo tired, fed up, had it, and wished u marry the romantic soooo heavenly nice good looking guy u saw driving Porsche when u wait for the bus in the morning (cause your husband still can’t buy u a car)….FANTASY…..u start the fantasying the impossible.
Or for some people the actually bring their fantasy into real and it will hurt a lot of people. it’s not worth doing..simply because YOU ARE MARRIED already. That reason is not enough for you??
Marriage is a commitment for me. Commitment that I made for myself. It’s not an easy path all right…it’s not all about laughing, love and happiness. It’s about sacrificing also, crying, heartbreaking…. Indeed it’s the hardest task ive ever know, not just because the mistery of good or bad husband you got. But it’s about our ego.We will feel at some point that we’re the one that already serve sooo much or giving so many kindness, but yet still unsatisfying. But maybe your husband/wife felt the same way too. I always look at it this way…Im no angel, Im a stubborn asshole sometimes, and he can love me in the first place…im lucky. And if that love is ever fade someday, i will still take care, love and respect him because he did once love me and stay with me while im being stupid n stubborn. An Id pray to Allah that he will feel the same way too, cause now..im trying to love him no matter ho hard the situation is..I always try to go home to my marriage, my commitment.
Easy to say it is….but it’s hard. However get a note and wrote something u grateful about your marriage,and read them while u are sooo mad and lost…It’s a commitment. Probably better living will add sparks on your happiness, well…after a big fight go to the mall and burn the credit card of yours (if you are a shopaholic), bought truckload of books and gave them to poor children (if u are a social person)….or just kiss your kids and let them be your best gifts.
Well, well…that’s what I think…….Marriage…interesting subject…maybe i will add some more….later! what do u think ..?
February 11th, 2007 at 8:39 am
Marriage can be really really hard and makes me feel to not want to be married. But in some moments it makes me thankful for finding a life long friend. But I can definitely conclude one thing about marriage, it’s not as fun as I thought it would be and/but I don’t think I can live without my wife.
March 28th, 2008 at 8:29 pm
heeemmm,marriage??marriage is about making emotional bonding,know how to understand, know wahat’s the meaning of sacrifice and care…i thank God for giving me someone who became not only my husband but also my true soulmate..he loves me just the way i am, even when my body have changed in so many way because of my pregnancy..he can handle that situation better than i am…hahahahha…he said,”mama itu sudah menjadi sunatullah bagi wanita, dan Allah menjadikan segala sesuatu bukan tanpa tujuan..dan semua pengorbanan mama utk kelahiran anak kita, membuat surga ada di telapak kaki ibu..” My husband always makes me feel secure n comfort.although, life doesnt always fill with joy.but we always try to support each other.try to have keluarga sakinah n build a family with good and strong value..semoga Allah ridho atas smua harapan dan perjuangan kami.Amien.
October 31st, 2008 at 12:41 am
“Marriage is a commitment for me. Commitment that I made for myself. It’s not an easy path all right…it’s not all about laughing, love and happiness. It’s about sacrificing also, crying, heartbreaking….”
Trully inspiring….